Wow, what a great question! We are glad that you know that the bad didn’t happen because of you. Our concern is that you said you are busy trying to place blame and build your self esteem. Your energy is going in directions that are not life giving. Placing blame is a dead end street.

Moving past anger and blame involves moving into sorrow and grief over the damage that has been done. Moving past anger and blame includes running into the arms of our Abba Father and seeking healing of our wounded hearts. May your journey lead you ever closer to feeling deeply loved and full accepted by Him.